Female sit-round gathering

Opinion of the woman and the man

IT
As is known, there are some versions of friendly sex.

1. Sex on-excite. Well, quite standard variant. Next morning have woken up, a little posmushchalis and have said goodbye to following pjanki. To whom does not happen? With me, the truth, never was. But it, more likely, accident. In this case the main thing – vzaimouvazhenie. From the come true fact to disappear there is no place. However distribution of this fact can strongly do much harm to someone from you, and (with respect) it is not necessary to forget about it.

The big request to expensive men: if to you it is not indifferent, how the girl from whom you have casually spent night (we after all feels we speak not about extraneous people, and about friends?) – call it next day, ask, how are you doing, and tell, that everything is all right. This call to what you will not oblige (to change usual friendly tone on romantic it is not so necessary), but the girl will relax at once and will not think, that now you by all means consider as its whore.

2. Sex with "eks". It, perhaps, most digestible variant from all. If happens so, that, having left, you remained good friends, nothing prevents to be engaged from time to time to you in to what both have got used for a long time. However, here there is some neuvjazochka: what for then in general was to leave? But it not to me to judge – in a life everyone happens.

Anyhow, to have sex about "ex-ohm" - the least injuring variant: sometimes you do it on a habit until at one of you new serious relations will not be got. All is However, admissible it only in the event that any of you any more does not feed neither quivering feelings to the former lover, nor illusions concerning that relations can proceed. "Is soared", usually, the thrown party so to the one who has left the first, it is necessary to be attentive and to be convinced, that the one whom you have thrown, the already otperezhival.

3. Sex simply so. Here it is the most sad, that only can occur between people. It is a question of the certain symbiosis arising between two individuals on some interval of time. The reasons for similar symbiosis there can be a weight, but, as a rule, there is it not from a good life. And with anything good does not come to an end. If at you qualitative sex turns out, that hour when someone one taki will fall in love is not far. In another, by itself. So leaves, that in this sense it is impossible to name girls proof tin tell-tales. And consequently the first they, as a rule, surrender. That is, we.

Girls are in the habit to feed hopes and rather quickly to adapt for a situation. Did not love – did not love, and you look, already and it is enamoured completely. You, it appears, any more friends as it has been stipulated right at the beginning. And after all guilty is not present: simply she about this beginning has forgotten for a long time (that quite naturally), and it of anything else and did not mean (well after all in love did not admit!). Here as a result also it turns out: any friendship, one continuous unpleasant deposit.

If in what you are engaged in bed, reminds mechanical pastime more likely (as there was at Burrows? "e. tsja to be forgotten"?), and nevertheless, you continue to do it, I can congratulate you. You have reached unsurpassed heights of cynicism. On me so it is even worse, than sex with unfamiliar object from a disco. There though the passion spark is present. And here... Never I will forget, as one my such here... ghm... The friend (meanwhile, I really not bad concerned it), having caught on itself my thoughtful sight, has taken an interest: "You that it, whether have fallen in love with me that?". "Do not give out wished for valid", - I replied it with sharp enough tone, silently hating myself all fibers of soul.

What for I did it – me not clearly till now. Perhaps, it was the unique history when I felt present... Well here that, aha. The dirt, cynicism and is more than anything.

Well will suffice about the personal. Perhaps, also it was possible to someone to receive the present pleasure from similar relations, but that to me – I would prefer to know never, that this such.

And consequently my rules are that: if he speaks "you to me the friend", and climbs thus in pants the friendship is postponed for uncertain term. Or until at it there will pass this whim, or until when we will cease to be lovers. And in both cases it is not excluded, that to our friendship on it the end will come.

IT

I do not know, how you, and I love sex with friends. Female to a floor friends, certainly. I love, when the girl who is engaged with me in sex, it is necessary me more likely the friend, than the mistress. Also has put not so much that it essentially facilitates a life, relieving me from a superfluous sentimentality of type "you absolutely do not love me", how many in internal installations. Since any moment the mistress causes in me unpleasant feeling of a duty. I will underline – not responsibility, and a duty. I do not wish to feel obliged. To anybody and anything.

Besides, the friend in the person can tell much more, than the mistress. Recently I in general have ceased to understand, what for to get to myself a beautiful toy, gluttonous till my time - money, for the sake of that, than I can be engaged with the good friend to mutual pleasure?

However, it is time to pass to analysis of flights and their planning. So. Imagine morning. You wake up after a friendly wine party - oppanki! Tatyana (Natalia, Svetlana...)?! Lepshy the buddy since the childhood... Also what now to do?

Easy, the fighter, without a panic - all that could, you have already made. Are expensive is not present back. Now it is necessary to lead up a situation to logic end. If to you has carried, and you have woken up the first, you have still a pair of minutes for tactical reflexions about sense of an event.

Gather. Now you should arrange the demonstration performance absolutely not similar to with what you suited this night. You arranged, I hope?

To cancel an event anybody any more in forces, and here to remain in friends - it makes sense. Because on a question "as we will look each other in the face?" There should be one answer – with deep satisfaction. Otherwise it is necessary to hide eyes, to play a passing over in silence, to be confused and redden. And so - you will know, that in the presence of mutual desire, mood and a place can quite repeat action, and, not necessarily in the near future. The friendship is not subject absolutely not to fast ageing, unlike the teenage love which is often given out for love to a coffin.

And therefore, now you should use the best efforts, that she has not regretted about the past. For this purpose include on a maximum care, participation, attentiveness. In forms peculiar to you, it is natural - a kind of the rude drinking companion who has unexpectedly turned to the purring cat, can finish the lady to a heart attack. Do not forget: it to you the Friend, instead of the mistress, any sjusi-pusi and the other romanticism with a bow – friends from it usually toshnit.

And here to embrace-kiss – without fail. And a compliment concerning night – first minutes. Only, please, one any reasonably short and, it is desirable, fair. More shortly, do not go too far, but let know, that relations are perfectly in order, anybody does not hurry up anywhere, it is possible to roll about and chat. By the way, notice, with it to you always will be about what to talk, unlike that busty blonde whom you have removed last week.

Now, when you have the program on the nearest pair of minutes, it is possible to relax and again to hit in abstraction. Than the given situation is good? If you it is valid friends, means, your duties and responsibility are mutual. Because the friendship does not assume a man's and female role. But assumes the lowered sensitivity because of nonsense. In a fantastic way, yes?

But it is not necessary to plunge into dreams of erotic friendship. There is a considerable chance, that all unearthly wisdom which I have collected in some paragraphs set forth above, first five seconds after its awakening will easily break off. Oblom consists that any steps you, the friend, to make will not give.

Variant the first, the most unpleasant: after a second after its awakening you receive on a muzzle (if will not carry – a knee in a groin) then your former friend leaves love halls, furiously squalling and showering with a vicinity damnations. With the assumption, that it to you the friend, you have got excited. It to you not the friend. So, the friend or in general the acquaintance.

Variant of the second, easier. To you simply do not give a course: sob, leave in itself, do not communicate, push away and worry. Suffer and show care. Very thin, impressionable nature and as you could not notice it earlier has got to you – to understand it is impossible. Too to me, the friend is called, has made the girl cry. Cattle such...